| mbt shoes clearance 5/15(木) 21:07:41 No.20140515210741
Two moths ago we had a very rare blow out of a fight. He is concerned that I am exhausted from my current PT/turned into FT job that pays nothing. I have no energy and he basically wants me to quit. I originally got the job because we needed the extra money but now we do not yet I feel that I have worked so hard to network and develop my position I don't want to quit. I made a stink at work and scaled back (not very successfully yet but still working on it). During the fight I kept digging further about what was really bothering him and he came up with a slew of things that were never an issue before. what I wear, what I don't do, and what I should do to spend more time on myself like go tanning, workout everyday, etc. Come on! I am a competitive triathlete but recently I have not been focused on training. So OK, I could work out more. I love being attractive and believe I still am but, like a lot of women with three young kids, I have worked my butt off for the past 8 years to support his endeavors and our family. So my focus has changed! This fight and his nit picking has really bothered me since because I started questioning why he is addressing all of these things NOW. how he needs more employees like her, why can't this person or that person in his company be more like her etc. I can recognize that she is talented and a real asset to his company, but I can't shake the feeling that like his employees, I am constantly being compared to someone else resulting in me to being insecure in our relationship.
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